ok, so continuing the story..... we left the church, drove all through town to get back to me and my sister;s house where i was going to leave my dress and i needed to pack all my stuff into the car for the honeymoon cuz it was soo crazy the days before the wedding we didn't have time to load up the car, so we got it all loaded and then we realized that we didn't get the food from my mom that she was going to pack up and send with us, food from the reception, we figured it could save us a few meals on the honeymoon! and it did!!  so we gave here a call when we were on our way to get some gas, they were all sure we were long gone! but we weren't yet!!  so we filled the car up and when it was full it started leaking like a waterfall comming out from underneath the car!! not good!!  this had actually happened like the last 3 times i filled it, and i kept telling my dad, but i did not know what to do, my car has been in and out of the shop a lot lately,, mostly for their own mistakes!!! so atleast i haven't been paying for it!!!  (it turned out that it was a seal at the top of the tank,, the last time that they took the tank off, when they put it back on the seal got folded so it wasn't sealing!!  so anyway, we went back to the church it was getting kinda dark by now, and so chris had the headlights on.. and when we went into the church, he left them on!!   we got back out and the car just went click.... click....  and we could not go, my dad pointed out that the lights had been left on, but ive done that many times and it has always shut the lights out before the battery dies, so i didn't understand why that would have happend..  anyway...... my dad gives us a jump ,, we let the car run for a while, then chris shuts it off, and let it sit for just a few mins, tried it again and it went click click.. again!  it died that fast, with no lights or anything off.. so my sister leaned in the window and asked me if we wanted to take her car, and i was like "dont you need it to get to work?" and she said that she was going to be on a camping ttrip most the week and wouldnt need anything more than a ride to and a ride from (which would not be hard to get)  and by then my car should be fixed and she could use it!  so we were like ,,, ok.. and as soon as i said that,, my entire family that was there, which constisted of like 30 people,, 10 of which were kids,, were completely unpacking our car and loading it into her car.... within like 10 mins the cars were switched and we were ready to go,, i practially just stood and watched as everyone moved so fast to organize and move things around... i made sure we had eveything we needed and we said our good byes'  .... again... and headed out!!  we were so thankful for what my sister had done.. her car was wonderful, and it was great cuz we still go to go and my car got fixed!  Paise God!!!!  we were both in tears at certain points on our way down to our honey moon because just how blessed we were and how everyone had helped us so much with everything!!  we were just so thankful and amazed!!  God really blessed us and made everything to do with our wedding and honeymoon and so far everything since then PERFECT!!!  it almost doesnt seem real!!  i mean yeah, its hard being married, it different, it really is work like everyone always says.... but i love it!!  its been great,, we have everything we need and could ever ask for!!  and i just got a full time job at a factory, i start next monday, the 11th!!  ive had a temporary job working at cedarville university in the kitchen for the last 2 weeks, so that will help some, and once i really start work, we should be able to pay all of our bills and possibly extra to get some student loans paid off sooner than later!!   well,, thats it and i better get off, chris is waiting for me so we can go home, we dont have internet at home so we have to use the computer labs at the school!   well, have a good day, and God bless.....   He certainly has blessed us!!!